The story of Carl and Mag.

Carl and I first met in 1994. I’m not sure where but was mostly most likely they met at a party Carl was 22 and i was 20 neither one of us had any idea what the future had in store for us. We were still too young to know and didn’t really care about much of anything except where the next party was going to be…i knew how to be happy and make others around me happy to Carls is more quiet and reserved

In 1994, like I said before they both had attitudes like we didn’t have a care in the world we both knew that they had a thing for each other we became a hot item in our home town and young more and more nothing serious but enjoyed each other’s company.

They weren’t very serious but they did hang out quite a bit

I remember OJ Simpson was on TV and all you could see was his Bronco white Bronco driving down the street Carl our friend Roxy and I were playing cards that night. I believe that’s the night that Aubrey was conceived.

A few months later I found out I was pregnant Carl was willing to take responsibility for the baby right away . 9 months later I had a beautiful baby girl 5 lb 14 oz she named her Aubreyana  within 5 weeks of having her, Carl was at the door asking to see his baby girl i of course let him in. Carl and I tried to have a relationship again so they could raise a be together but once again they grew apart and went their separate ways is Carl still took care of Aubrey as much as he was able to years later Mag  and Carl met up at outdoor concerts they reconnected in a mosh pit and had so much fun they decided to hook up again and they returned home once again this did not last long

Carl came back into a Aubreys  life a little more full-time when she was 6 Carl had some bad luck and left their lives again for 7 years.

 in the beginning I sent many cards to Carl  from Aubrey but eventually that faded away

In 1999 I started to date a man named Donor. Donor is my second daughter’s dad . In in 2005 Mag  and Donor move to Rushford mn. Where Brea was born…. Mag and Donor had many ups and downs throughout the years they were basically together for the girls.

Carl came back too their hometown and everyone made in 2009 miss you really really happy and excited to have him back in their lives Carl and I continue to talk on the phone Carl started to talk and see abrey more

In September 2011 Mag  met up with Carl. At an outdoor concert in Rushford the moment she saw him that night she fell once again those feelings she had for him in the past after that name Carl and I texted each other almost nighty making plans to go to another outdoor concert they both were excited about it .. well they never made it. Carl got back together with his ex. I was living with donor we  called it off.

Mag  Carl continue to talk as long time friends would. Carl  girlfriend Mistake got mad or jealous or both and deleted My number and her off of Carl’s friends list on Facebook. I thought Carl had done it this so i had left him alone.

2011  i was not happy with the relationship and she felt lost and was partying pretty hard again just hanging out only be only because she had two girls to think of their getting really out of control because things are getting really out of control between her and Donor. I didn’t know how to get out

Back in hometown Carl  and Mistake didn’t have much motivation to do anything in life but just get by.

 which made  Carl not have  motivation for Life and  to just get by. Carl was not working and was working the streets you could say

I  was at my Wit’s End party in the line sneaking out of the house to go to parties with friends It made me  feel wanted and needed to hang out with people who were not good for her.

she was in an ounce savable relationship from all the damage Donor and her had done to each other

Carl on his way to nowhere but jail he and Mistake  had broken up

On July 2nd 2012 Aubrey  decided to call her dad using my phone because she had no minutes on hers.  she talked to Carl and made plans for me to pick up a Wii game from him. Carl  n i talked for the first time in months they made arrangements to go to Owatonna to pick it up.

  The next day did Carls and i r had some time alone to talk which went well, it was good to have her friend back in her life Carl  that the same Charl and i text each other till early morning that night Mag must have fallen asleep because she woke up and had a text that said I love you from Carl . my   heart dropped and text him back I love you too and I mean it, I truly mean it I will never leave his side again miss i thought long and hard before a before writing back to him because I knew that when I said it that you would never take those words back.

On the  Fourth of July Carl and I had our  first official time together as being back together i did not know how to tell the girls what was going on so i e continuing to work in Rushford and drive back and forth from Rushford  to hometown for the next two weeks it hurts to be apart and things are getting worse at home in Rushford

Finally after staying in their hometown  with Carl for 3 days and realizing how much they had fallen in love missing every went back to her home in Rushford  Carl and i the girls to stay with him and never did go back.

Thanks for shaky at first Aubrey  hated it. Brea liked living in the little apartment right away she was fine with staying with Carl and seeing her dad on the weekend

Carl and i  were doing pretty good. i found a job right away Carl watched Brea while she worked. Aubrey  was staying with grandpa and grandma both girls were in school and Christmas. Carl being single and free for so long that a wild hair and went out one night with his without Me and end up getting in trouble and being put in jail again. I was Furious before money to bail him out anyway. Carl was surprised she had done that I you told him that this time had to be rock bottom and last chance or she would leave him Carl knew i was being true to his word and would leave him he knew i wasn’t going to leave one messed up life for another it was not only Carl that had to clean up his act and mine also.

  shortly after Carl  asked me to marry him, of course I said hell yeah Brea  was happy and told Carl said she loved him for the first time Aubrey didn’t really approve.

 They moved out of the apartment into the big house. As Brea called it they spent their first Halloween, Thanksgiving , Christmas and New Year’s together in that house on cherry ave July 2012 they set the date to be married by 6 shortly after they moved into the house on Broadway Street this is an awesome move that was much needed for everyone to feel stable again in April Aubrey  graduated early from high school and finally happy to see Charl and I together. Brea is a happy well-rounded kid that loves her family. Rex and Brea became best friends Rex is her little brother…a dog.

 Carls and as a man all around I couldn’t ask for a more I love him to death and will do anything for him and I meant it when I said I would never leave you again

I believe that’s something amazing has happened to bring us together whether it be God and the angels are just plain fate I think home or whatever and maybe we found peace in each other’s arms after this long long road apart …. Wrote June 2018

To update Aubrey had a little girl sept 2014 Aerie.  

Things went well for us we both worked girls happy brea in school.  Aubry and Aerie lived with us. Those were the best days of my life we were all together happy and healthy….

So thats  how that part of our life went I start documenting the last three years march 2018

Chapter 2

June 2017 it  all changed….